Last week, I was working in the quiet of an out-of-the-way hotel suite, keeping an eye on TSN (Canada’s ESPN), and preparing for my keynote address the following morning. On TSN, a member of the Calgary Stampeders (a team in the Canadian Football League) was asked exactly what propels his impressive achievement in the sport. He answered, “I really like doing what others say I can’t do.”
Now, on how many occasions have we painted the town red after accomplishing a feat that someone else believed and voiced that we could not get done? Perhaps, you’re like me and can fill a legal pad with the off-putting declarations. Let’s be straightforward – it actually is rewarding to achieve an ambition that others inform you can’t be completed – particularly, by you. Earning an advanced degree, building and selling a booming enterprise, or writing and selling tens of thousands of copies of the book inside of you – well, it feels fantastic to silently appreciate that you were right after all.
However, let’s reflect on a more elite level – an E1™ level. Isn’t it “spot on” that we have a propensity to be harder on ourselves than others are on us? And how often do we glance over our personal and professional shoulders and speculate about what the Jones next door are doing or thinking?
Forget the Jones. Disregard what the others suppose or declare. Focus on – and work toward – that which impresses you. You.
Take a moment to delineate success as you perceive it. In your mind, what makes your family thriving? In your estimation, what outside relationships should you cherish and cultivate most? As you see it, what do you actually want to undertake – or not – professionally? In your distinctive state of affairs, what’s factual financial security, success, or freedom? Now, outline success in the additional areas of life and work toward that which matters most to you.
In every section, what would impress you – only you – if you set and accomplished a goal in that part of your world this year? Some may dispute that impressing only ourselves is, by nature and description, selfish. I have the same opinion. But, if our selfish evaluation of our particularized world includes the people, issues, and beliefs most prized by us – we are working toward our own commendable cause, not the attitudes, judgments, and displeasures pushed upon us by others. As a replacement for thinking and acting like the masses, we imagine, originate, determine, and achieve success in our own eyes.
One percent thinking is not for everyone. One percent efforts are not for all. One percent results are not for each and every one. If we forget about the benefit that comes from achieving what others deem impracticable and, in its place, work in the direction of that which each of us – independently – believes is viable, One Percent Living™ is within reach. Most of all, it’s flat out impressive – in the manners that stand for that which is most worthy to you.
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Posted by jrendel