The six inches sandwiched between your ears may very well be the most valuable section of real estate on the planet. For when it comes to really living an elite – E1™ — life, the substance of your success exists in your mind before it ever makes its approach to dreams, goals, strategies, plans, and actions. Below, are ten measures you can take without delay to assent to your mind guiding you on a passageway to E1™ living.
- Feed your mind. It’s been said that you can tell a lot about a person by the books he reads, or doesn’t read for that matter. What books are on your nightstand? On your desk at work? For me, it’s Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand and Chasing the Rabbit by Steven Spear, respectively. To lead a successful E1™ life, you need to be teachable. A key element is the motivation to continue learning about the world where we live, lived, and will live.
- Set a strategy for your marriage or significant relationship. With a little planning, you can assemble an award-winning enterprise in your marriage. Write down one word that describes what you would like from your marriage. Have your spouse do the same. Compare notes. Talk about differences. Find similarities. See eye to eye on what you both believe is your mission. Now, set some substantial goals based on your united mission. Jayne and I completed this assignment and developed 13 action items that carry out our marriage mission.
- Make a surprise date with your family. This week, be thankful for your family and reallocate your priorities. You’ll be taken back how much they detect that you’ve thought ahead and broken the mold on their behalf. Go ahead and keep your standing Saturday movie matinee. Stay true to the rituals that make your family only one of its kind. But, stir it up once. Announce that you’ll be home early for lunch – and stay home to swim all afternoon. Get up earlier on Sunday and let your family awaken to the aroma of your famous pancakes and center-cut bacon. Toilet paper Grandma’s house, but clean it up for her the next morning.
- Remove yourself from toxic relationships. Do you have friends where your exchanges seem to end up in unconstructive territory – disapproval, hearsay, and disagreeable about life instead of seeking solutions? Do you feel like the world is a less significant place when you leave their company? It might be high time to disassociate. It’s all right to remain acquaintances and share the infrequent chitchat; however, these people are not adding to your development in life. As an alternative…
- Hang around people you want to be more like. If you’re endeavoring to develop your business, are you mixing with those who have developed businesses? If you’re striving to add some balance in your life, are you associating with those who, undoubtedly, have the sense of balance you seek? I’ve always understood that if I encircle myself with like-minded people, at my ambition level or above, I’ll be inspired (or irritated) to progress. If I connect with non-E1™ thinkers who would rather discuss than do – it’s only a matter of time before I slide down that slippery slope called Run of the Mill.
- Take a shot at a task you’re avoiding. What remains of your tasks for the day, week, month, or year that you’ve evaded in order to complete the easier, less agonizing, responsibilities? Of course, you know that the job you’ve avoided is one that can lead to greater success. “But, it’s so risky…I might flub the sales call…I was up so late last night…My heart will be in it tomorrow.” Stop. Now. Whatever your excuses, get rid of them for one day. Make the investment. Pick up the phone. Remind yourself that those who will not do can never take pleasure in the payback given to those who get up and do.
- For one day, stick to a list. You know what you need to do. You know how to prioritize what you need to do. Just make the list and finish the priorities. Finish # 1. Move on to # 2. Finish # 2. Move on to # 3. You get the picture. Send your phone calls to voice mail for an hour. Check email three times each day (and turn off that electronic notification that you have a new email). Stay off the Internet. Your Facebook post can wait and you don’t need to know what your Facebook friends had for dinner, saw at the movies, or scored on the “Which Celebrity are You?” quiz. I take this line of attack every day and find myself with “new” readily available hours every week.
- Prove your internal chatter wrong. Oh, the stuff we tell ourselves: we need more experience; no one will buy; I’m too old; I’ll never afford it; and, the list goes on. Quit listening to all of that self-defeating babble in your head. Single out one ambition you have wanted to achieve, but allowed defeating thoughts to disrupt you. Take one step toward your goal. The chatter volume will drop off. Take another step. It’s getting quieter. Take another. Before long, you’re where you want to be and moving toward the next level.
- When lightning strikes, write it down. Every day, we have ideas or thoughts that can better a process, patch up a problem, or add happiness to someone’s day. Too often, we “make a mental note” and later have a “mental freeze.” Keep a record of your ideas and anything that makes you pause throughout your day. Put a notebook in your pocket to summarize your compilation of ideas for later discovery. Or just tap your thoughts into the “Notes” feature of your smart phone device. Later, you’ll be able to turn your “a-ha” moments into actions that bring value to your business and life.
- Perfect your pitch. Come up with a list of ways your product or service benefits your customer. How do you add to their top line revenue? How do you help keep expenses at bay? How do you boost market share? How do you build superior public awareness? The more you recognize the value your business provides – and the innovative insight you have along the way – the greater your sales, service and profits become.
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